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After SchoolEducation is said to be the pillar of the society and I could not agree more, while the deadline for assignments, classes, and test almost drive me crazy I look forward to completing my education so that I can give back to the society. Since I was a little boy I developed a keen interest in reading books and the need to accomplish something bigger than myself, while most of my teen years have been much about discovering who I am, my interest in what I tend to achieve when I am done with the school is clear. I was always drawn to working with children hence my interest in pursuing education for the middle grades, I want to be a part of molding the tomorrow generation and ensure they can be able to withstand most tribulation if not all and come out stronger. I also hope to use my education to tutor children who might find it difficult to learn as the teacher is in class to ensure none of the students is left behind.
Through my college education, I have been a member of various communities where I have been both a leader and a representative and I intend to use the knowledge to ensure am not only a role model to the rest of the children in my society but that I can be able to share my leadership experience with the rest. Additionally, in these communities we have been taught to always be accepting of others hence I intend to use this to ensure that those children who feel as if they do not belong get the support they need and not stigma. Lastly, as a person, I have always felt that we have not done enough in the mental health arena and I intend to use my knowledge to offer support to people who might need it and advocate for its awareness to ensure all get the help they need while abolishing the stigma that is associated with the condition.
After reading your Spiritual Handbook text and Feldman on the dying process, discuss how you anticipate accepting your own mo
After reading your Spiritual Handbook text and Feldman on the dying process, discuss how you anticipate accepting your own mortality.
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I learned in nursing school that when you are young your cells and growth are still continuing but once you reach age 25 your cells ceased and this is consider the peak of your life and that is consider a full life. One of the most difficult issues each person must face is that of our own mortality. Nothing is certain but death and the fact that one day, somehow, all of our lives will come to an end. Death and dying are sensitive topics that many people prefer to avoid, while others are nearly paralyzed by them, terrified of the unknown. Death is one of the most frightening unknowns imaginable, and it’s something we all must face. And for too many people, fear of both the process of dying and what happens afterwards casts long, dark shadows over what should be years of contentment and growth. Death is not something that people think of everyday and even though everyone have to die someday most people say they will deal with it when the time come.
I speak from experience. Well into adulthood, I struggled with a paralyzing fear of death brought on by the premature loss of numerous family members. For years, my fear of death was so terrifying I could hardly talk about it, let alone think of death of a friend. Having worked in the healthcare field this is something that you see all the time and it’s very scary, saddening and devastating all at the same time. For me, the thought of death had never crossed my mind until 2005 when I was diagnosed with several health problems. It was then that I started to ask am I going to died and that was the question for years. But now that they have so much advance medication it allow people with different health problems to advance their life with the fact that they take medication as directed.
In Dr. Brook presentation she note that the Young-Old outlook is a more healthy approach to facing mortality and involves keeping aging in the proper perspective. Dr. Brooks (2014) says that with those having the Young-Old outlook, “there is not a high percentage that spends their latter life in a nursing home.” According to Felder (2014) there are five steps people face when dealing with dying and they are denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. Dr. Jeanne Brooks (2014) also states, “How one chooses to live their life will determine how they move into this season. For me I 29 right now and I take life one step at a time and I surely try to make sure that I am living me last days on earth to the fullest because I never know when it’s my time. Truly it’s a blessing to still be here on earth, for people that are my age and young are dying more and more. But honestly, I am still at that stage where I know I have to die one day but I am just not a the point where I accept that and I hope when the time come for me to depart this earth and go on to be with my heavenly father and live an everlasting life, I will be a peace with that and let go.
Reference
Brooks, Jeanne, Liberty University. (2014). Aging with Grace [Video webcast]. Retrieved from http://learn.liberty.edu/webapps/portal/frameset.jsp?tab_tab_group_id=_2_1&url=%2Fwebapps%2Fblackboard%2Fexecute%2Flauncher%3Ftype%3DCourse%26id%3D_6555_1%26url%3D
Feldman, R. S. (2014). Development Across the Lifespan. Amherst: Pearson.
After reading chapter Nine and the McIntosh piece, I completely agree with Peggy McIntoshs argument especially
Whiteness
After reading chapter Nine and the McIntosh piece, I completely agree with Peggy McIntosh’s argument especially, when she said whites think of their lives as morally neutral and ideal. White people, especially white men have always seen themselves as “saviors” bound by a moral intuition that it is there duty to go and save the “savage” races of the world. It is this kind of thinking that allowed for colonialism, imperialism and all the other ism’s that has made life hell for black and brown people around the world. This is especially evident now with this imposing war in Iraqi were Neo Conservative are advocating for global “Americanism” which namely reads: Our white way is better than savages of the earth-they the savages need to be more like us and we the white man should teach them to be like us. This kind of thinking has been going for years starting with the Europeans and there damaging imperialism of every corner of the world. The Europeans felt that it was up to them through the grace of God to “enlighten the world,” and spread Christianity to all the hedonist of the world. White people have always made it there priority to dominant people of color. They do this mainly because they have always believed others to be inferior to their so-called superiority. Whites use stereotyping and oppression of non-whites to justify the lower social status of non-whites. Whiteness as a racial group or a Nation is very ethnocentric. They look at society as ‘in’ and ‘out’ people, they judge people by their own small minded standards and expect people to live up to their moral servitude.
While either Peggy McIntosh’s essay or Chapter Nine go into the depths as to why whites feel the need to dominant, they still made a case for white privilege in society. There is no denying that whites are the dominant group in America, it is there ideals, principals, needs that are much more fostered by the American social institution; while the needs and ideals of the sub-groups are ignored or treated as non-important. Whenever non-whites complain about something wrong in the system they are seen as divisive and traitors to the established norms of white people. For examples many conservatives whites consider the word diversity to be a code word for reverse racism as oppose to diverse groups coming together to fight institutions of racism. Peggy McIntosh’s essay outlines some the privileges of white people that people of color, namely Blacks have known for years. We [Black people] have known that it is easier for whites to get housing and we have known that image of white people have been filtered through the media as beauty for which all other should strive to look like; we have known that our race works against in the criminal justice system and all other systems. Thus, many of the privileges that Ms. McIntosh speaks are old news to many African Americans.
Ms. McIntosh talks of White people’s unwillingness to confront the inequalities in society and how they have taught themselves to ignore these inequalities that have in turn given them many privileges. I find this interesting because so often many whites will out right deny that they are racist only because they don’t want to confront the reality of the oppression there for fathers have done to people; they want to write it off as the pass and not their problem. I always wondered why. Is it because as a dominant group they want to set the agenda so to speak, and decided what is given validly and what is not. Or, is it they don’t want to be reminded of this evil pass because they have rationalized the social arrangement for why this event happened. Whatever the case, I just don’t believe whites understand the dilemma that they have put many people of color around the world through by chrisclunis.
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