Couples and Family Therapy

Couples and Family Therapy

Read chapter 4-5 in Gehart text and chapter 12-13 in Handbook
Discuss an assessment for the couple below using strategic or structural therapy – what are you looking for, why, and what did you find? Then discuss possible strategic or structural interventions – which ones, why, and what was the outcome? Make sure to address any legal or cultural issues that may be present. Mateo & Kesha: Mateo is a 48 year old male; Italian; parents married; previously married and divorced with two children (ages 17 and 16) and one step child (age 21). He does not have a good relationship with his children at this time. Kesha is a 25 year old black female; parents married; no previous marriages; has two children with Mateo ages 2 and 3. The couple met in February 2015 through a dating app and were married in September 2015. Mateo’s children are upset with him and thus upset with Kesha – they don’t get along very well, especially the step son. Mateo presents with an abrasive personality and stated he can be harsh with his words. Kesha is overwhelmed with work, raising kids, and not being happy in the marriage. She wanted to attend therapy a year ago but Mateo did not feel it was needed. Kesha has been open about not being happy and needing more. In not getting this, she began talking to other people online. In doing so, she met another man and decided to approach Mateo about opening up the relationship so she could have a boyfriend. Mateo is not okay with this but has made concessions. He stated he did this so at least it was not behind his back however, he is upset that she has met and had sex with this other man. Both are feeling very lost and hurt by the other